20 Attributes a knowledgeable young woman looks for in a young man


Devotional, Male 2 Man / Tuesday, September 24th, 2019

20 Attributes a knowledgeable young woman looks for in a young man

Purpose:

Does the young man seem to have a purpose?
Does he keep an open mind and is he patient?
Does he know what he wants and does he go after what he wants?
Has he developed a positive mental attitude and can he let it be seen by others?
Does he speak in a carefully disciplined, friendly tone?

Goals:
Does he have goals or does he accept what he has now even when he knows that he deserves better?
Does he have a tendency to procrastinate?

Beliefs:
Does he know what he believes and does he act out his beliefs?
Does he have integrity i.e. Does he always err on the side of truth?
Confidence: Women find confidence sexy.
Does the young man act with confidence?

Self-Esteem:
Does he like himself?
A Young man should not change himself just to make someone else happy, unless he is the one seeking the change.

Style:
Does he go out into the public smelling good and is he dressed like he is about to meet the love of his life?

Education:
Is he studying at college or aiming to go to college?
Is he a skilled artisan?
Does he save/invest for the future?
A young man must be good at something that brings in an income. He must never stop learning.

Respect:
Is he respectful respectful of others?
Does he like children and does he know how to play with children?
No matter a person’s job or status in life, everyone deserves respect.

Deeds:
Is the young man, a man of deeds?
Does he do what needs to be done without blaming, justifying or complaining?

 

Body Language:
Does he walk with his head held up?
Is he conscious of his body language?
Does he walk like he knows where he is going?

Debt:
Does he know the difference between good and bad debt?
Does he tend to lend others things he can’t afford to lose?

Parents:
Does he speak well of his parents?
Does he call his parents at least once a week?

Handshake:
Does he give a firm handshake?
No real girl wants to shake a weak clammy hand.

Hope:
Is he hopeful?
Does he ever lose his hope?
Women can tell the size of a man by the size of the things that bother him.

Exercise:
Does he run, lift, and play sports?
Women know that exercise makes for a happy person.

Eye contact:
Does he always look the people he meets in the eye when talking to them?
Does he smile when speaking to others?
Does he praise others in a genuine way without being too excessive?

Aggression:
Is he physically abusive?
Is he verbally abusive?
If a young man: Never hit anyone unless you or your loved ones are in immediate threat.

League:
Does he appreciate a good woman?
Go for a woman you perceive to be “out of your league ” that is what determines your calibre.

Laziness:
Is he lazy?
Nobody deserves a lazy person. Do not be like everyone else. Be different.
Challenges:
Does he take calculated risks or does he tremble in front of a challenge?

Contributor: Sipho Gift Mthombeni 

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